, > and I am sure others on the list know of cases. Why "dilute" > an excellent adjunct to child rearing (breast feeding) with a > potentially fatal and unnecessary practice? What's the point? > Saying something like " There are ways to make co-sleeping > safer" is the same thing as saying it must be un-safe to start How is it different to safe crib issues? How is it different to safe strollers? How is it different to any safety issue? I believe that a lot of the worry comes from not knowing about the family bed and you just think it is plain weird. Lord knows I did. How did the baby die in an adult bed that you knew of? lizo