Thanks Linda..thought i was crazy. Have never had pateints complain of headaches either. I dont think we should throw DDAVP out of the picture. There is a time and a place for it's use. Not as a cure but as an addition to therapy. For any of you that have truely tried alarms, they dont necessarily work either. I finally stopped getting up and coaxing my son to the bathroom after several months. That first night the alarm went on for several hours until the battery ran out. He slept thru the whole thing. My point is that there is no easy answer to eneuresis nor "one size fits all". It is individual for each child and family. It's also not about washing sheets for the most part.